Consent: to voluntarily agree to what is done, or proposed by another under no threat or coercion

A person is UNABLE to give consent when:

Consent Checklist:

(check any of the following if they apply to you)

    Had sex because you were drunk or stoned

    Went all the way because you were verbally or physically threatened

    Had sex with someone who didn't listen when you said no

    Felt you had to have sex with someone because you felt pressured, and he/she wouldn't stop

    Had sex when you did not know if you really wanted to or not

    Went all the way with someone because you were never asked how far you wanted to go


If you've checked ANY of these,

YOU DID NOT GIVE YOUR CONSENT!

and may have been sexually assaulted.

Click here to learn more about your options and what you can do.


Sexual Assault is ANY UNWANTED sexual contact or behavior

Types of Sexual Assault:

SEXUAL HARRASMENT

  • VERBAL: Name calling, Rude Comments, Verbal Disrespect
  • PHYSICAL: Touching, i.e.-butt smacking, bra snapping, groping
  • VISUAL: Visually obscene images, photographs, drawings, body gestures

MOLESTATION
The sexual assault of a child by a non-family member

INCEST
Any inappropriate sexual behavior towards a family member.
For example, adult family member to child; sibling to sibling/cousin

RAPE
Rape is forced sexual intercourse, including vaginal, anal or oral penetration. Penetration may be by a body part or an object.Rape victims may be forced through coercion, threats or physical means. In 80 % of rapes, no weapon is used other than physical force. Anyone may be a victim of rape: women, men or children, straight or gay.
Find out what to do if : YOU were raped or someone you know was raped


  • Acquaintance: 80% of all rapes happen between people who know one another
  • Spousal: 1 in 7 women are raped by their husband
  • Stranger: Happens less than date and acquaintance rape
  • Date Rape: Happens more than 50% of the time among teens

SEXUAL ASSAULT
Sexual Assault is unwanted sexual contact that stops short of rape or attempted rape. This includes sexual touching and fondling. (Some states use this term interchangeably with rape.)
Find out what to do if : YOU were sexually assaulted or someone you know was sexually assaulted


The following statistic categories are available:

Sexual Assault
One person is assaulted every 7.2 seconds.

93% of juvenile sexual assault victims knew their attacker; 34.2% were family members and 58.7% acquaintences. Only seven percent of the perpetrators were strangers to the victim.

How often it Happens One person is raped every 2.7 minutes.

Perpetrators
Contrary to the belief that rapists are strangers lurking in the shadows or driving a van around the parking garage, approximately two-thirds of all rapes were committed by someone known to the victim.

Child/Teen Victimization
About 44% of rape victims are under age 18, 29% are age 12-17 and about 15% are under age 12.

Girls 16 to 19 are four times more likely than the general population to be victims of rape, attempted rape or sexual assault.

Children and teens rarely report incidents of abuse or assault. For every known case of child sexual abuse/assault, there are at least ten more that go unreported. In Sonoma County, there were 286 reported cases of sexual abuse.

(2006, Redwood Children's Center - forensic facility for children)

Date Rape
A study of 1,000 female students indicated that 12% of unwanted sexual acts were perpetrated by casual dates and 43% by steady dating partners.

Teen/Young Adult Dating Violence
35 of every 1,000 women who attend colleges or universities experience an attempted or completed rape each year. This means that a campus with 10,000 female college students might expect that 350 of them would be raped during a single school year.

(Fisher, Bonnie S., 2000. The Sexual Victimization of College Women, U.S. Dept. Of Justice.)

Cyber Space

  • 1 in 7 minors, ages 10 to 17, received an unwanted sexual solicitation on-line and were exposed to sexual material.
  • Only 5 % of these solicitations were reported to law enforcement, Internet service provider, or authorities.
    National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC)
  • 50 % of teens (13-18) have communicated online with someone they have never met.
  • 30 % teens have talked about meeting in person someone they only know online.
  • 1 in10 teens find out they were "talking" to an adult pretending to be much younger.
  • 27 % teens talked about sex with someone they never met in person.
  • Girls are more at risk than boys:
    • Girls post more profiles than guys (56% vs 37%)
    • Girls shared Personal Information (37% vs 26%)
    • Girls have been asked more about sexual topics (33% vs 18%)
    • Polly Klaas Foundation


Emergency Medical Services

Healdsburg General Hospital Healdsburg (707) 431 - 6300
Petaluma Valley Hospital Petaluma (707) 778 - 2634
Memorial Hospital Santa Rosa (707) 525 - 5207
Sutter Medical Center Santa Rosa (707) 576 - 4040
Palm Drive Hospital Sebastopol (707) 829 - 4370
Sonoma Valley Hospital Sonoma (707) 935 - 5106

Youth Services

CHOPS Teen Center Santa Rosa (707) 284 - 2467
Coppertower Family Medical Center
     HIV, STD testing for Teens
Cloverdale (707) 894 - 4229
El Nido Teen Center Sonoma (707) 939 - 1452
Positive Images
     Gay, Lesbian, Transgender
     Transgender, Intersex, Queer
     & Questioning Youth
Santa Rosa (707) 579 - 4947
Social Advocates For Youth
     Shelter, Crisis Line & Counseling
Santa Rosa (707) 546 - 3432
Sonoma County Adult & Youth Development
     Counseling & Substance Abuse Services
Rohnert Park (707) 793 - 9030
West County Community Services Sebastopol (707) 829 - 5717

Teen Clinics

Forestville Teen Clinic Forestville (707) 887 - 0427
Occidental Area Health Center Occidental (707) 874 - 2444
Phoenix Theatre Teen Center Petaluma (707) 217 - 3384
Planned Parenthood Rohnert Park (707) 967 - 7526
Public Health Teen Clinic Santa Rosa (707) 565 - 4820
Southwest Community Health Center Santa Rosa (707) 547 - 2222
Turning Point Santa Rosa (707) 539 - 8868
Russian River Health Center Forestville (707) 869 - 2849

24-Hour Hotlines

UASA
     United Against Sexual Assault
24/7
Rape/Sexual Assault
(707) 545 - 7273
Psychiatric Emergency Services Mental Health (800) 746 - 8181
YWCA
     Young Women's Christian Center
Domestic Violence (707) 546 - 1234
SAY
     Social Advocates for Youth
24/7
Teen & Shelter
(707) 546 - 3432
Child Help USA Child Abuse (800) 422 - 4453
Youth of California Youth (800) 843 - 5200
National Runaway Switchboard (800) 621 - 4000
RAINN
     Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network
(800) 656-HOPE

Mobile HIV Testing Information

Please call the numbers listed below to locate a MOBILE HIV TESTING VAN

Drug Abuse Alternatives Center HIV testing (707) 544 - 3295
Public Health Department HIV testing (800) 565 - 4620




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